Yeah, true, there is normally one laid-back funny person with much inner wisdom and one tightly wound perfectionist person with much inner sensitivity. It's just when it's done for m/f setup, the woman normally gets to be the repressed uptight one.

I kind of want to watch a show in which the male lead is beautiful, composed, overachieving, has trouble connecting with people socially, wants to get married and start a family. And the female lead who also scrubs up very nice, but prefers to hang around in very casual attire, cracking jokes and bonding with everyone over beers and games of pool, and has a different teenage underwear model on her arm in every episode.

Maybe this show exists and I totally missed it?